Friday, November 1, 2013

The Glue Dries Clear

He touched me. Not in an inappropriate way. I’m old enough to know the difference. He probably thought it was harmless, friendly, carefree touching. No. He touched me. I didn’t ask him to touch me. I didn’t want him to touch me. I don’t feel safe. He touched me. And then he was gone.

But me—I was still there. Fractured pieces, crumbling to the floor. Fragmented. Disintegrated. Potsherds.

I shared my broken self once. I revealed myself. I exposed myself. And I got a slap in the face. “That’s dangerous,” was the only consolation I received. And up went a wall.

I felt the wall when she talked with me. I want to connect. I want to love. I want the exchange of warmth. But it’s that wall—it stands in the way. Isn’t this supposed to be safe?

“All I saw was a black hole.” He could have stolen the words from my mouth. Didn’t I say that a few days before? Perhaps— “This is my family,” he said. No. It’s not possible. The walls are still too high.

Reconciliation.

Such a foreign word. Supposedly, God has given me that ministry. But how can I minister to others when all I am is potsherds?

See I know it in my head. I know I need to reconcile myself to God. But then I can hear the repercussions: “Perhaps you haven’t given your life to Christ!” Well, in a way you would be right. But it’s not that simple!!

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Remember who you were.
I’m drowning!
Remember what it was like.
I can’t breathe!
You are not there now.
I can’t reach you!
I am here.
I am going to die!
Trust me.
Why are you not pulling me out?!
I am here.
I can’t stand!
Wait.
No! The water is too—
There.
I can stand!
Yes.
I can breathe!
Yes.
You didn’t pull me out.
You didn’t need to be.
But—
You could stand the entire time.
I can breathe!
Remember how it was.
I can stand!
Remember who you were.
I’m alive!
You are no longer she.

Reconciliation.

Such a foreign concept when I feel I am falling apart.
It overwhelms me; these potsherds that I am.

Look to me, says God.

Look where? I can’t see you.

I’m drowning.

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